Friday, January 16, 2015

Calvin's Happy Birthday Party

His birthday may have been a couple of weeks ago, but we LOVE celebrating our Calvin!  With a Christmas Eve birthday, we like to wait until January for his big party to make sure the focus is truly on him.  He wanted pizza and wings for his party this year. 



When he was asked what theme he wanted, he first said "basketball" as which point I reminded them that he had a basketball theme last year.  So next he said "Jayhawks" which, of course, was his theme 2 years ago.  My boy doesn't change his interests much!  So we compromised and did a "Jayhawks basketball" theme.  How cute is this cake?!? That Grandma Cheryl is so good with the Calvin Dwyer Court and IX for his age where XII should be for the Big 12.
After dinner, the kids played for awhile and then it was time for Calvin's birthday gifts.
He was excited to get some Under Armour shoes, Nike Elite socks, and new sweatshirts.  
Aunt Joy got him his very first "man bag" -- an Adidas gift set with body wash, deodorant, and cologne.  He was almost as excited as he was embarrassed opening this one!  
Checking out his new cologne (which he has worn every day, by the way).
Once the gifts had been all opened, we moved on to singing and cake.
Make a wish, buddy!
Violet sure loves birthdays!  We haven't broken the news yet that our "birthday season" is over in this house for another 8 months!
I can't believe this boy is already 9.  In some respects, he seems too little to be 9, but other days, he seems so much older than 9.  He is very mature and responsible and I'm so proud of the young man he is becoming.  So glad we got to spend another day celebrating my Calvin!

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Christmas Finale

We concluded our Christmas celebrations with Aunt Janie & Uncle Gary's family last weekend.  I love that Christmas just keeps on going in our family!  Check out Evelyn's latest style. . . She does her own headband these days; I like to call it the "Carol Brady" look.
All of the youngest cousins were at this party, which makes it an extra fun one!  Van-Man with his daddy & mommy. . .
. . . and with all of the singing snowmen.
KJ was ready to fight the evil of the world in his superman cape!
Baby Wes is already sitting up and crawling!  He got lots of love from everyone!
Evie and Circe in their little black dresses.  Circe is not so sure about her cheesy cousin.
Violet was loving on her Great-Aunt Janie all day.
And Kyla found a comfy place on Todd's lap.
Last Christmas gifts of the season!
Evelyn was super-excited about her new, large, baby doll.
I love getting together with all of our family at the holidays!  A final Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Monday, January 12, 2015

Violet's Almost-10th-Surgery

So remember I said that 2014 was a momentous year because it was the first year since birth that Miss Violet had no trips to the OR?  Well we started 2015 off with a bang with what should have been a fairly straight-forward dental procedure under anesthesia.  (Her poor mouth: she needs 7 cavities filled, a crown placed, and 2 extractions.  And this was before x-rays, so possibly more work is actually necessary.)  We completed her history and physical, completed her pre-admission testing appointment and pulled into Children's Mercy at 5:42 a.m. last Friday in preparation for her new and improved mouth!  I love how pretty all of their Christmas lights still look. . . 
 We answered all of the necessary questions and took her vitals to make sure she was healthy enough for surgery, and then waited for them to take her back.  They brought her some toys to play with, but my girl would much rather play with the phone.  Here are some of her/our pre-op selfies:
Daddy's girl:
And some post-Versed snuggles with my cuddly girl.
 They took her back to surgery a little before 8 and we found our places in the waiting room, preparing to get comfortable.  As you can imagine, we were surprised when they called Violet's name just over 30 minutes later and told us she was "all done."  Russ and I knew immediately something wasn't right, as this surgery should have taken at least 90 minutes.  The dentist met us in the consultation room and said that unfortunately, Violet didn't do well with the intubation and no dental work was performed.  She let us know that the anesthesiologist would be meeting with us to fill us in on the details of what exactly happened.  Needless to say, we were very disappointed. We went back to the waiting room to wait.  And wait.  And wait.  After an hour, I got a little impatient and asked when the anesthesiologist might be coming out.  They called and said she still wasn't stable enough for him to leave her.  That sure calmed my nerves!  Another half hour passed and he finally came to talk to us.  He said they made two attempts at intubation and her lungs did not like it.  In his words, it was the "worst bronchospasm I've ever seen."  And he has been at Children's Mercy for over 10 years.  That sounds just like the Violet we all know and love, now doesn't it??  He said he actually considered transferring her to the PICU, but she wasn't stable enough so that's why he stayed with her that whole time.  Violet is possibly the first child ever to almost end up in the PICU for a dental procedure that didn't even happen!  He didn't have any good explanations for what happened, but recommended she be admitted to the hospital for a chest x-ray and pulmonology consult.  We felt pretty uneasy heading back to the waiting room.  I told Russ that this 10th trip to the OR for Violet would be her LAST if I have anything to say about it.  We continued our waiting game for another hour and a half.  This was possibly the most annoying and unnerving waiting we had ever done in this surgery waiting room.  Knowing that your child didn't have the planned surgery and that she basically crashed on the operating table, and that you still can't see her after almost 4 hours is a terrible feeling.  But FINALLY, they told us she was ready to head to her room.
 She was none too happy with the morning's activities, either. 
 Although she did perk up a little when her lunch arrived.  An Oreo shake can make almost any day better.
 After fighting sleep all afternoon, she finally gave in to give her body some much-needed rest.
The chest x-ray was clear and the pulmonologist preferred to see her in clinic, so thankfully the pediatric team agreed to discharge us later that evening.

We drove back up to Children's Mercy this morning (3rd time in one week, starting to feel like old times) to meet with the pulmonologist.  We went over all of her records and decided to start her on an asthma controller medication.  He isn't convinced she has asthma, but wants us to try the Flovent for a couple of months to see if we can tell any difference (in her energy, sleep habits, coughing).  He said she may have "intermittent" asthma that gets triggered by viral infections and presents with cough as the only real symptom.  The sleep study she had back in September also suggested possible asthma because of her cough and less-than-ideal oxygen saturations during the night.  And because her cough occurs primarily at night, he'd like us to see gastroenterology to make sure she isn't having reflux when she lies down causing her cough.  Finally, he'd like us to see immunology to make sure she wasn't having an allergic reaction to one of the meds given before intubation (since her last 2 intubations haven't been smooth).  So our new plan is to start the Flovent inhaler twice daily, see Immunology this week, GI at the end of the month, and Pulmonology again in March for follow up.  And what about her teeth??  I'm still waiting to talk to the dentist again to come up with a plan on that front.  Whatever we do will have to occur in the dentist chair, and probably over many visits.  So instead of one morning in the OR getting all of her teeth fixed, Violet ended up with a hospital admission, visits to pulmonology, immunology, and gastroenterology, and who-knows-how-many trips to the dentist.  Nothing's ever easy with my Violet girl!  But I'm so thankful that she recovered quickly from her traumatic event and seems no worse for the wear.  And I'm very thankful for all of you who were praying for our girl throughout the day on Friday!  As always, God was taking care of her!

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Happy New Year!

As we have the past several years, we had a relaxed New Year's Eve celebrating with family at our house.  We started out the evening's festivities with a few rounds of "Heads Up Charades." My dad always serves as great entertainment in the games we play because no matter how hard he tries, he's just not very successful :)  This was his "surprised" look that somehow mom never was able to guess.
And he had a bunch of little helpers with his "hockey" clues that again mom never could figure out.
Eventually we were all laughing too hard to keep the clues coming.
Next up, we played some "Wits & Wagers", a fun trivia and betting game.
We broke off into couples for teams, which gave me an unfair advantage since Russ is the trivia King with all of his random knowledge.  We cleaned up on this one.
The kids (and Aunt Sara) played a little Connect 4 Launchers.
Evie and Kyla really seemed to know what they were doing!  And no, I don't know why they insisted on being nearly naked most of the night.  I guess that's one of the advantages of having the party at home, right??
As the countdown to New Year drew closer, Grandma Cheryl passed out all of the sparkling juice so the kids could get prepared for their toast.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!  IT'S 2015!!
My favorite New Year's kiss, always and forever.
Uncle John celebrating with the little ladies!
My little New Year's Babes!

Grandma Cheryl also got the kiddos some fun party poppers with toys in them.  The kids loved pulling them apart to reveal their prize!
Happy New Year to all our friends and family!
I know I say this every year, but 2014 was so full of blessings for us!  I wrote on the first day of 2014 that perhaps it would be the first year of her life that Violet didn't have any surgeries, and you know what?? It was! (We won't mention that she'll be going to OR on January 9 for dental surgery; we're just so thankful that there was no anesthesia in 2014!)  This was the year that she 'graduated' from the LeeAnn Britain Center and started her school career at Wellsville elementary, where she continues to make so many gains every day.  It was definitely a momentous year for our Violet girl!  Calvin and Oliver are learning so much at school and always amaze me with what they can do.  And Evelyn continues to be their favorite 'toy' -- they play with her all of the time and it is so precious.  Speaking of Evie June, she has definitely made the biggest strides this year.  She was still a baby when the year started, and now she's practically ready for college :(  Okay, so that's a bit of an exaggeration, but she is just growing so much!  She's so fun, though.  I can't tell you how many times a day Russ and I will look at each other and say, "She's just so cute!"  Her conversations are priceless and I really wish I could bottle up this adorable stage, because we won't have it in our household again!  In addition to our family, Russ and I are very thankful for our house, our jobs, and most importantly, the gift of Jesus!   Have a blessed New Year!